{"id":9463,"date":"2012-07-30T20:00:40","date_gmt":"2012-07-30T13:00:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/?p=9463"},"modified":"2012-07-30T00:48:26","modified_gmt":"2012-07-29T17:48:26","slug":"nguoi-tre-voi-nhung-lua-chon-quan-trong-nhat-trong-doi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/nguoi-tre-voi-nhung-lua-chon-quan-trong-nhat-trong-doi\/","title":{"rendered":"Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t trong \u0111\u1eddi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Trong v\u00f4 v\u00e0n nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn m\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng \u0111\u00fang. Nh\u01b0ng, tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t, vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t s\u1ebd cho ch\u00fang ta m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi “th\u0103ng hoa” nh\u01b0 mong mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i.<\/strong>
\n\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a h\u01a1n b\u1edfi h\u1ecd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111ang ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i, m\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1edbm ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o l\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai \u1ea5y r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng h\u01a1n ch\u1eebng \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

1. Ch\u1ecdn L\u1ebc \u0111\u1ec3 S\u1ed0NG<\/strong>
\nL\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ho\u00e0i b\u00e3o v\u00e0 s\u1ee9 m\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, l\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng, chu\u1ea9n h\u00e0nh x\u1eed c\u1ee7a c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. X\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: \u201cM\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ai, m\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec, m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd d\u00f9ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng hay kh\u00f4ng?\u201d.
\nX\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ecdn cho m\u00ecnh l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng (r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh n\u1eb1m \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u) – \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn\u201d, \u201cb\u00e1nh l\u00e1i\u201d, hay s\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u201cma \u0111\u01b0a l\u1ed1i, qu\u1ef7 \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn quan tr\u1ecdng b\u1eadc nh\u1ea5t, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00fang \u201c\u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cb\u00e1nh l\u00e1i\u201d cho m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd nhi\u1ec1u khi s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t u\u1ed5ng ph\u00ed ho\u1eb7c v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng bi k\u1ecbch. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi sinh ra v\u1ed1n d\u0129 l\u00e0 l\u01b0\u01a1ng thi\u1ec7n, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ecdn l\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c nhau th\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nhau, cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nhau v\u00e0 s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn kh\u00e1c nhau.<\/p>\n

2. Ch\u1ecdn NG\u01af\u1edcI \u0111\u1ec3 L\u1ea4Y<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ph\u1ea3i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn n\u00e0y t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea1m tr\u00f9 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n mang t\u00ednh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac nh\u01b0ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 l\u00fd tr\u00ed. L\u1ea5y v\u1ee3, l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng th\u00ec c\u00f3 l\u1ebd ai c\u0169ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c (ch\u1ec9 tr\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u00e8m l\u1ea5y ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p). Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng t\u00ecm cho m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi!
\nNg\u01b0\u1eddi ta hay n\u00f3i l\u00e0 trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c ki\u1ec3u b\u1ea1n (b\u1ea1n x\u00e3 giao, b\u1ea1n t\u00e2m giao, b\u1ea1n t\u01b0 giao, b\u1ea1n tri k\u1ef7…) th\u00ec ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 kh\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t. Khi ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi, \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u1ea7n l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0ng quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai ph\u1ea3i chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 h\u1ec7 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi c\u01b0\u1edbi nhau, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ch\u01b0a th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi, ch\u01b0a x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u00f5 l\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng, ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 chung m\u1ed9t h\u1ec7 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u00f9ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i nhau v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a nhau, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ebd th\u0103ng hoa!
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\n3. Ch\u1ecdn VI\u1ec6C \u0111\u1ec3 L\u00c0M<\/strong><\/p>\n

Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cho th\u1ea5y \u0111ang c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ch\u1ecdn ngh\u1ec1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5i ngh\u1ec1 theo \u201cm\u1ed1t\u201d. Ngh\u1ec1 n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1eafn m\u00e1c \u201cth\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1ee3ng\u201d l\u00e0 gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed5 x\u00f4 v\u00e0o t\u00ecm \u201cv\u1eadn may\u201d. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed khi \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec1 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng l\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec1, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb. Th\u1ef1c ra, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec9nh ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec9nh l\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c: Tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb gia t\u00e0i ba l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec9nh; tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t nh\u1ea1c s\u0129 l\u1edbn c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec9nh; tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u0129 gi\u1ecfi c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec9nh, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ki\u1ebfn tr\u00fac s\u01b0 danh ti\u1ebfng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec9nh… Th\u1ef1c ra, l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u0129 gi\u1ecfi v\u1eabn t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1ed3i, l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 gi\u1ecfi th\u00ec quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n l\u00e0 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec7u tr\u01b0\u1edfng k\u00e9m.
\nTh\u1ef1c ra, l\u00e0m s\u1ebfp hay l\u00e0m l\u00ednh, l\u00e0m th\u1ea7y hay l\u00e0m th\u1ee3, l\u00e0m quan hay l\u00e0m d\u00e2n, l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 hay l\u00e0m thu\u00ea… \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng, m\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh gi\u1ecfi nh\u1ea5t, ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t (c\u1ea3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh v\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i).
\nB\u00ean c\u1ea1nh ch\u1ecdn c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m,ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i l\u00e0m ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 (c\u00f4ng ty, t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c n\u00e0o, ng\u00e0nh n\u00e0o,l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c n\u00e0o, v\u00f9ng mi\u1ec1n n\u00e0o…). \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00ec c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p, m\u01b0u sinh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. Ng\u00e0y nay, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi ch\u00ednh n\u01a1i m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 n\u01a1i m\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc. C\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1ec1u h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 nhau nh\u01b0ng sau m\u1ea5y n\u0103m ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 2 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nhau, 2 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai kh\u00e1c nhau m\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 2 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c nhau.
\n<\/strong><\/p>\n

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\n4. Ch\u1ecdn TH\u1ea6Y \u0111\u1ec3 H\u1eccC<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u201cs\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p\u201d quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 5 \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y\u201d g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00e0 h\u1eefu \u00edch nh\u1ea5t:
\nTh\u1ea7y<\/em><\/strong>
\n\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y b\u1eb1ng x\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1eb1ng th\u1ecbt, tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp khai s\u00e1ng tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n cho ch\u00fang ta. Th\u1ea7y th\u00ec c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn d\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecdc l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u00f4 t\u1eadn c\u1ee7a tri th\u1ee9c. V\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u00fang ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4n l\u00e0m th\u1ea7y c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 v\u1eady.
\nS\u00e1ch<\/em><\/strong>
\nS\u00e1ch l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ec5 nh\u1ea5t, r\u1ebb nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 nhanh nh\u1ea5t cho s\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. S\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n tri k\u1ef7, lu\u00f4n t\u1eed t\u1ebf, nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i, ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng ch\u00fang ta. H\u1ecdc t\u1eeb s\u00e1ch l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng b\u1ed9 \u00f3c v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebfn t\u00fai kh\u00f4n c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i v\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft trong s\u00e1ch th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, t\u1eeb c\u1ed5 t\u1edbi kim, t\u1eeb \u0110\u00f4ng sang T\u00e2y, v\u1ec1 t\u1eadn nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y cho m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o m\u00e0 chi ph\u00ed nhi\u1ec1u khi ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng… t\u00f4 ph\u1edf.
\nTuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec1u c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc t\u1ea1o ra gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f2n n\u1eb1m \u1edf ch\u1ed7 ch\u1ecdn s\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec t\u1eeb s\u00e1ch.
\nKinh nghi\u1ec7m<\/em><\/strong>
\nTr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3 gi\u00e1 th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n tr\u1ea3 gi\u00e1 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 sau m\u1ed7i th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u00ec c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i r\u00fat ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n t\u00e1i di\u1ec5n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng, n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u00ec t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec n\u1eefa, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu v\u1eady th\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ef1c l\u1edbn kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. \u0110\u1ec3 h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3 gi\u00e1, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u t\u1eeb 2 \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y\u201d \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean (th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 s\u00e1ch).
\nNh\u00e2n v\u1eadt<\/em><\/strong>
\nH\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc th\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3 (\u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc tri th\u1ee9c) ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i (h\u1ecdc tinh th\u1ea7n, \u00fd ch\u00ed). Ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m, t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng, t\u00e0i n\u0103ng v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd l\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 cho m\u00ecnh tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 khai s\u00e1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi quanh m\u00ecnh.
\nTuy nhi\u00ean, ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c th\u1ea9m \u0111\u1ecbnh, bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ai, bi\u1ebft ai l\u00e0 ai, c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec s\u1ebd v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng nguy hi\u1ec3m, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng khinh th\u00ec l\u1ea1i tr\u1ecdng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng tr\u1ecdng l\u1ea1i khinh.
\nInternet<\/em><\/strong>
\n\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1t minh quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 20, l\u00e0m cho c\u1ea3 nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t h\u1eb3n so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3, Internet th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u cho s\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i Internet h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh 2 lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi: \u201cC\u00f4ng d\u00e2n m\u1ea1ng\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cS\u00e2u m\u1ea1ng\u201d. \u201cC\u00f4ng d\u00e2n m\u1ea1ng\u201d l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng Internet nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng cao ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 cho c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. C\u00f2n \u201cs\u00e2u m\u1ea1ng\u201d l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb phung ph\u00ed ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn th\u1eddi gian, s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 ti\u00eau khi\u1ec3n tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng ho\u1eb7c ph\u00e1 ho\u1ea1i, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u201cs\u00e2u cu\u1ed1n l\u00e1\u201d (game online), \u201cs\u00e2u \u0111\u1ee5c th\u00e2n\u201d (coi phim sex), \u201cs\u00e2u chat\u201d (t\u00e1n chuy\u1ec7n g\u1eabu); \u201cs\u00e2u ph\u00e1 ho\u1ea1i\u201d (hacker m\u0169 \u0111en)… L\u00e0 \u201cc\u00f4ng d\u00e2n m\u1ea1ng\u201d hay \u201cs\u00e2u m\u1ea1ng\u201d, \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb trong th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i n\u00e0y.
\n
\n5. Ch\u1ecdn B\u1ea0N \u0111\u1ec3 CH\u01a0I<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 h\u00e0m \u00fd t\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111an xen, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh ch\u00e2n dung m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y c\u00f3 c\u00e2u: H\u00e3y n\u00f3i cho t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd n\u00f3i b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai. C\u00f2n \u00f4ng b\u00e0 m\u00ecnh, khi nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i: \u201cM\u00e3 t\u1ea7m m\u00e3, ng\u01b0u t\u1ea7m ng\u01b0u\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cG\u1ea7n m\u1ef1c th\u00ec \u0111en, g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e8n th\u00ec r\u1ea1ng\u201d (ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, qu\u00e1 c\u00e1 t\u00ednh th\u00ec g\u1ea7n m\u1ef1c s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111en, m\u00e0 g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e8n c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng s\u00e1ng).
\nTrong \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ngo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi th\u00ec c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n t\u00e2m giao, b\u1ea1n th\u00e2m giao, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n tri k\u1ef7, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n h\u1eddi h\u1ee3t, quen bi\u1ebft x\u00e3 giao, ngo\u1ea1i giao. H\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng nhau chia s\u1ebb ni\u1ec1m vui, n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n, chia s\u1ebb m\u1ed9t h\u1ec7 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng s\u1ed1ng, gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb s\u1ed1ng. D\u1eabu v\u1eady, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e1c nhau tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh l\u1eadp th\u00e2n, l\u1eadp nghi\u1ec7p.
\nC\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u201ct\u00e0i s\u1ea3n\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi (\u201cGi\u00e0u v\u00ec b\u1ea1n, sang v\u00ec v\u1ee3\u201d), l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n chia s\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean, h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 khi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Song, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng b\u1ea1n, l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng b\u1ea1n. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9. M\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y \u0111\u1eafp tr\u00ean tinh th\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec s\u1ebd v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p.
\nCh\u1ecdn L\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn \u201c\u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cb\u00e1nh l\u00e1i\u201d, l\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn \u201ch\u1ec7 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh\u201d cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi; Ch\u1ecdn Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y l\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh, m\u1ed9t t\u1ed5 \u1ea5m, m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i ch\u1ed1n b\u00ecnh y\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i v\u1ec1, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u201cb\u1ec7 ph\u00f3ng\u201d c\u1ee7a nhau trong c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi; Ch\u1ecdn Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m l\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p, \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c h\u00f3a gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi; Ch\u1ecdn Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt ho\u1eb7c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 trang b\u1ecb cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u1ea1ch \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c thi chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi; Ch\u1ecdn B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i l\u00e0 ki\u1ebfm t\u00ecm v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1eb1m l\u00e0m gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 th\u00eam cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn quan tr\u1ecdng n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t ra v\u00e0 thi tri\u1ec3n h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c nghi\u00eam t\u00fac, \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u b\u00e0i: M\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ai? M\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec? Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u v\u1ec1 \u00e2u? R\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u1ebd d\u00f9ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh \u00e0o vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng hay kh\u00f4ng? M\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ra sao?… \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ed1ng, nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft th\u00e0nh: \u201cYour Choices, Your Life\u201d (L\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n), \u201cYour Values, Your Fate\u201d (Gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn s\u1ebd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n\u201d).
\nGi\u1ea3n T\u01b0 Trung<\/strong><\/p>\n

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