{"id":52124,"date":"2018-05-14T11:00:05","date_gmt":"2018-05-14T04:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/?p=52124"},"modified":"2018-05-14T16:27:30","modified_gmt":"2018-05-14T09:27:30","slug":"ban-chinh-la-nhung-gi-ban-viet-trong-bai-luan-dai-hoc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/ban-chinh-la-nhung-gi-ban-viet-trong-bai-luan-dai-hoc\/","title":{"rendered":"H\u00e3y c\u1ee9 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh trong b\u00e0i lu\u1eadn \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc"},"content":{"rendered":"

B\u00e0i ti\u1ec3u lu\u1eadn n\u1ed9p v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 3 \u0111o\u1ea1n v\u0103n d\u00e0i vi\u1ebft tay, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ebft theo m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n m\u1eabu tr\u00ean gi\u1ea5y. N\u00f3 nh\u1eafc t\u00f4i\u00a0nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng\u00a0b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n\u00a0\u0111\u00e3 ng\u00e2y th\u01a1 v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o trong su\u1ed1t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u1ea5y v\u00e0 trong ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc 45 n\u0103m v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n

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\u0110\u1ec1 b\u00e0i c\u00f3 hai c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi ngo\u00e0i th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. S\u1ed1 40 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u t\u00f4i “M\u00f4 t\u1ea3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c trong hai n\u0103m qua m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 mang l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t”, ph\u00eda d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00f3 6 d\u00f2ng tr\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c bi\u1ec3u di\u1ec5n trong m\u1ed9t v\u1edf k\u1ecbch c\u00f3 t\u00ean l\u00e0 “Hoa tr\u00ean m\u1ed9 Algernon” (Flowers for Algernon) n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3m h\u1ecda c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m tr\u00ean con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. (Gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean k\u1ecbch c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t fan h\u00e2m m\u1ed9 khoa h\u1ecdc vi\u1ec5n t\u01b0\u1edfng, \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft khoa h\u1ecdc vi\u1ec5n t\u01b0\u1edfng \/ kinh d\u1ecb)<\/p>\n

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C\u00e2u s\u1ed1 41 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i lu\u1eadn t\u00f9y ch\u1ecdn. \u0110\u1ec1 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u, “B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng Ph\u1ea7n I trong \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 chi ti\u1ebft m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 kinh nghi\u1ec7m, s\u1edf th\u00edch ho\u1eb7c th\u00e0nh t\u00edch \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. Th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt, k\u1ecbch, \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, vi\u1ebft ho\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec1n kinh; s\u1edf th\u00edch hay tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n”. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m ca h\u00e1t trong nhi\u1ec1u d\u00e0n h\u1ee3p x\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c. \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch chuy\u00ean s\u00e2u hay t\u00e1n ca \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c.\u00a0Ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n\u00a0l\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u00edch n\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c vi\u1ebft ti\u1ec3u lu\u1eadn c\u00f4ng phu h\u01a1n t\u00f4i nhi\u1ec1u. T\u00f4i h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng g\u1ecdi ch\u00fang l\u00e0 ti\u1ec3u lu\u1eadn. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng c\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng “mang b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0o b\u00e0i lu\u1eadn”. Nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3 hai b\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec1u n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u00e0 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i lu\u1eadn do h\u1ecdc sinh, sinh vi\u00ean vi\u1ebft ra \u0111ang tr\u1edf n\u00ean qu\u00e1 xa l\u1ea1 v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ecf qua 45 n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f9ng tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i ng\u00e0y nay v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn b\u00e0i lu\u1eadn \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. C\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p h\u00f3a v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nghi th\u1ee9c, \u0111i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng cao v\u1ec1 n\u1ed9i dung v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n. H\u1ecdc sinh ho\u1ea3ng lo\u1ea1n, cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean ti\u1ebfng Anh c\u00f9ng gia s\u01b0 nh\u1ed3i nh\u00e9t m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 b\u00e0i lu\u1eadn, m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i lu\u1eadn m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 vi\u1ebft v\u00e0o d\u1ecbp h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o k\u00e9o d\u00e0i c\u1ea3 n\u0103m.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 b\u00e0i lu\u1eadn chung c\u1ee7a Common Application l\u00e0 phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng tr\u00ean c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0: \u201cM\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 sinh vi\u00ean c\u00f3 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng, b\u1ea3n s\u1eafc, s\u1edf th\u00edch, ho\u1eb7c t\u00e0i n\u0103ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i h\u1ecd tin r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01a1n xin h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, h\u00e3y chia s\u1ebb c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i.\u201d Kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi, ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u t\u1eeb h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u00ean t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft v\u1edbi vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft h\u1ecdc sinh \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3. Tuy nhi\u00ean, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u00e1c b\u00e0i lu\u1eadn th\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c nh\u1eadt k\u00fd tu\u1ed5i teen h\u01a1n b\u00e0i ti\u1ec3u lu\u1eadn c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c sinh vi\u00ean tham v\u1ecdng. M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i b\u00e0i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1t khao d\u1eef d\u1ed9i l\u00e0 “\u0111\u1ed9c nh\u1ea5t v\u00f4 nh\u1ecb”, m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1edfi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c b\u00e0i lu\u1eadn n\u1ed9p v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc trong c\u00e1c n\u0103m, nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i ti\u1ec3u lu\u1eadn n\u00e0y r\u1eadp khu\u00f4n s\u00e1o r\u1ed7ng v\u00e0 xem b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n nh\u01b0 trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a v\u0169 tr\u1ee5, b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft c\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ee9 \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c emo.<\/p>\n

H\u1ecdc sinh (v\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd) lo l\u1eafng r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u00fang nh\u1eefng quy \u0111\u1ecbnh nghi\u00eam ng\u1eb7t \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. H\u1ecd t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm l\u1ed7i sai t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c chung b\u00ed m\u1eadt x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh li\u1ec7u m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i lu\u1eadn c\u00f3 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng hay kh\u00f4ng. H\u1ecd ph\u00e2n t\u00edch c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi t\u00ecm c\u00e1c manh m\u1ed1i tinh t\u1ebf, tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c vi\u1ebft lu\u1eadn. H\u1ecd t\u1ea1o ra lo\u1ea1i v\u0103n xu\u00f4i bu\u1ed3n t\u1ebb, ch\u00e1n ng\u1eaft, m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i v\u0103n kh\u00f4ng th\u00fa v\u1ecb l\u00e0m x\u1ea5u \u0111i s\u1ef1 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ho\u1eb7c khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean qu\u00e1 h\u0103ng h\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

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H\u00e3y l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 b\u1eb1ng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong b\u00e0i lu\u1eadn.<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y, l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt s\u1ef1 bu\u1ed3n t\u1ebb cho c\u00e1c\u00a0ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft\u00a0v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1ec1 c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac ho\u1eb7c n\u1ed9i dung t\u1ed1t \/ x\u1ea5u. \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft t\u1eebng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi. M\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecf qua. Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc ch\u00ednh l\u00e0: “B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n vi\u1ebft, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n” (Whatever you write about, it’s about you).<\/em><\/p>\n

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Trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m qua t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c b\u00e0i ti\u1ec3u lu\u1eadn tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cung c\u1ea5p nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ef1a \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n quan \u0111i\u1ec3m thay v\u00ec xi\u1ec1ng x\u00edch. M\u1ed9t b\u00e0i ti\u1ec3u s\u1eed v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh \u00f4ng b\u00e0 Do Th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t qua Th\u1ebf chi\u1ebfn II \u1edf Trung Qu\u1ed1c b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch b\u00e1n nh\u1eefng t\u1ea5m n\u1ec7m \u00f4ng mang tr\u00ean l\u01b0ng; m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c tranh g\u1eafn v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft b\u1ea5y l\u00e2u, t\u1eeb khi m\u00e0 c\u1eadu \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. S\u1ef1 than th\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m hay m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i ca ng\u1ee3i m\u1ed9t con l\u1ee3n \u0111o\u1ea1t gi\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1edfng – t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng nh\u1edb.<\/p>\n

Khi t\u00f4i khen ng\u1ee3i nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i ti\u1ec3u lu\u1eadn n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng kinh ng\u1ea1c: “N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i g\u00ec v\u1ec1 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y! C\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1 hay s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y! C\u00f4 \u1ea5y th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eafng!” N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, b\u00e0i lu\u1eadn kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 “T\u00f4i” (I) trong \u0111\u00f3, v\u00ec v\u1eady n\u00f3 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ecdi l\u00fac, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, (th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4 m\u00e0u theo \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y), nh\u01b0ng t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9, l\u00e0m v\u00e0 n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn, \u0111i\u1ec1u thu h\u00fat \u00e1nh nh\u00ecn ho\u1eb7c t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, s\u1ebd cho th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang ta.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

Vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t con l\u1ee3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y v\u00e0 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u01b0ng b\u00e0y t\u1ea1i h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee3 cho t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn, ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, ni\u1ec1m t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. Ti\u1ec3u s\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t m\u00e0 h\u1ecd th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n: nh\u01b0 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0 c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn cho s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f2n c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n cho th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai.<\/em><\/p>\n

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Nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean tuy\u1ec3n sinh \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. H\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m v\u00e0 vui m\u1eebng khi h\u1ecd b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i lu\u1eadn KH\u00d4NG ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1eadp trung \u201cT\u00f4i\u201d, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. L\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c tuy\u1ec3n sinh t\u1ea1i Amherst, t\u00f4i s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y trong\u00a02 n\u0103m: “Sartre n\u00f3i, “\u0110\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c n\u1eb1m \u1edf ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c” (Hell is other people), nh\u01b0ng Streisand l\u1ea1i h\u00e1t,”Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi may m\u1eafn nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi” (People who need people are the luckiest people in the world). B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi ai v\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao?” Th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng may, kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e1m th\u1eed th\u00e1ch ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m h\u1eddi h\u1ee3t b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi “\u0110\u00f4i khi s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, \u0111\u00f4i khi s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf kia” (Sometimes one, sometimes the other). Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 cho ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n

V\u00ec v\u1eady, quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang t\u00f4i. N\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00e0 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trang tr\u00ed (t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i “t\u1ed1t”). C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e2u “T\u00f4i” trong \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i \u0111ang ghi l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn v\u1ec1 \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, kh\u00f4ng khoe khoang v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh t\u00edch. Gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ng\u1eafn h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 h\u00e1t, n\u00f3 kh\u00e1 l\u00e0 nh\u1ea1t, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1edbi, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 m\u1edf c\u1eeda cho t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1eb1ng sau n\u00f3. T\u00f4i\u00a0ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0\u00a0ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u1ea5y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ee3i t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng anh ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm ra t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

Henry James \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft, “H\u00e3y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t” (Be one of those on whom nothing is lost). \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n mang theo m\u00ecnh, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00f4i \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. H\u1ecdc sinh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 l\u1ee3n ho\u1eb7c h\u1ed1 \u0111en ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y xem b\u00e0i lu\u1eadn \u0111ang n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, hay l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u1ef1\u00a0xem m\u00ecnh\u00a0l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a b\u1ee9c tranh.<\/em><\/p>\n

(B\u00e0i vi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a\u00a0t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3\u00a0Willard Dix)<\/em><\/p>\n

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Ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ecbch: Th\u1ee5c San<\/strong><\/p>\n

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