{"id":25864,"date":"2016-08-03T07:00:26","date_gmt":"2016-08-03T00:00:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/?p=25864"},"modified":"2016-08-04T18:42:46","modified_gmt":"2016-08-04T11:42:46","slug":"phai-lam-gi-khi-moi-thu-trong-doi-duong-nhu-dang-di-chech-huong-marcus-geduld","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/phai-lam-gi-khi-moi-thu-trong-doi-duong-nhu-dang-di-chech-huong-marcus-geduld\/","title":{"rendered":"Ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 trong \u0111\u1eddi d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111ang \u0111i ch\u1ec7ch h\u01b0\u1edbng? – Marcus Geduld"},"content":{"rendered":"

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C\u00e2u n\u00e0y t\u00f4i vi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ec9? C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1eafm. 2014 v\u1edbi t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u0103m nhi\u1ec1u bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9ng. Nh\u1eefng n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng\u00a0quanh\u00a0t\u00f4i \u0111ang \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 qu\u00e1 nhanh, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u00fang l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa.<\/span><\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 t\u00f4i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfm l\u1ea5y quy\u1ec1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. \u00dd t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111ang \u0111i ch\u1ec7ch h\u01b0\u1edbng. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c \u1ea5y\u00a0kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ea5y l\u00e0 n\u01a1i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i sai h\u01b0\u1edbng: h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111ang ph\u00e1 ho\u1ea1i kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1n bay \u0111i kh\u00f4ng\u00a0bi\u1ebft ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft\u00a0m\u00ecnh\u00a0s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfm l\u1ea1i\u00a0quy\u1ec1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn. Nh\u01b0ng sau \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i ngh\u0129, \u201cL\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm so\u00e1t nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn v\u1ee3 c\u0169 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh quay l\u1ea1i. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bu\u1ed9c \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 kh\u00f4ng sa th\u1ea3i t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh ung th\u01b0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t\u2026\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

H\u1ecd c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1ea3y t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c l\u00ean thi\u00ean \u0111\u00e0ng: \u201cB\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0m t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n sau khi m\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, n\u00ean ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 t\u00f4i ti\u00eau r\u1ed3i.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng: \u201cM\u00ecnh\u00a0kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y ra, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c \u0111i \u0111\u00fang h\u01b0\u1edbng\u2026 M\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec. M\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n d\u01b0\u1edbi s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a v\u1ee7 tr\u1ee5.\u201d \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t. B\u1ea3n ng\u00e3\u00a0c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t con r\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean b\u1ea9n th\u1ec9u. <\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ngh\u0129 theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3. R\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n n\u1ecd, ngay gi\u1eefa m\u1edb h\u1ed7n \u0111\u1ed9n b\u1ea9n th\u1ec9u \u1ea5y, t\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 t\u00f4i: \u201c\u0110i\u00a0Boston xem m\u1ea5y con r\u00f9a kh\u1ed5ng l\u1ed3 \u0111i!\u201d C\u1ea3 hai ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u y\u00eau th\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt \u1edf d\u01b0\u1edbi n\u01b0\u1edbc, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean th\u1ee7y sinh kh\u00e1 l\u1edbn \u1edf Boston.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ngay l\u00fac n\u00e0y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, v\u00ec v\u1eady chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i ph\u1ea3i th\u1eadt \u00edt t\u1ed1n k\u00e9m. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ph\u00f2ng cho thu\u00ea gi\u00e1 r\u1ebb tr\u00ean\u00a0airbnb, mua m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i v\u00e9 xe bu\u00fdt gi\u1ea3m gi\u00e1 v\u00e0 \u0111i v\u00e0o cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n. Ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch cho m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m v\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng con r\u00f9a r\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ee9 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi h\u01a1n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n nh\u1ecf kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfp th\u00eam cho t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh m\u1edbi. <\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft h\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 hi\u1ec7n c\u00f3. S\u1ebd m\u1ea5t v\u00e0i n\u0103m \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 k\u00e9o m\u00ecnh ra kh\u1ecfi h\u1ed1 s\u00e2u m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111ang m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n t\u00f4i \u201cki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u201d th\u00eam m\u1ed9t t\u00ed g\u00ec \u0111\u1ea5y,\u00a0th\u00ec m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. <\/span><\/p>\n

D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c:<\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. Ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t nh\u1eefng\u00a0kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, nh\u1eefng\u00a0kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh\u00a0kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n\u00a0\u0111ang g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 ti\u1ec1n \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn Boston (hay kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u00edch r\u00f9a bi\u1ec3n), h\u00e3y xem m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 phim \u1edf nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 m\u1eddi m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn xem c\u00f9ng, \u0111i h\u1ecdc n\u1ea5u m\u00f3n Th\u00e1i, t\u1eadp ch\u1ea1y\u00a0b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 t\u0103ng d\u1ea7n kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea1y n\u0103m d\u1eb7m\u2026 hay b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. <\/span><\/li>\n
  2. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i! H\u00e0ng gi\u1edd xem ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh tivi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1m qu\u00ean \u0111i nh\u1eefng\u00a0v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang xem tivi th\u00f4i. Ch\u00fang s\u1ebd tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i khi b\u1ea1n t\u1eaft tivi. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t k\u00ec m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t n\u00e0o v\u1edbi\u00a0nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00e2u (Ma t\u00fay v\u00e0 r\u01b0\u1ee3u bia\u00a0c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1eadt thay th\u1ebf cho vi\u1ec7c n\u1eafm quy\u1ec1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u00f2n t\u1ea1o th\u00eam nhi\u1ec1u r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa<\/span><\/span>\u00a0n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn)<\/span><\/li>\n
  3. \u0110\u1eebng hy v\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady \u0111\u00e2u. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m l\u00e0 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4i ph\u1ee5c m\u1ed9t t\u00ed quy\u1ec1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.\u00a0Nh\u01b0ng 9 b\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eebng tr\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee3i v\u00e0o n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 b\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00f4i.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    V\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3 t\u00f4i trong nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ng t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t 10 n\u0103m qua:<\/p>\n

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    Marcus Geduld<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

    \u0110\u00f4i n\u00e9t v\u1ec1 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
    \"main-thumb-1805029-200-9JScp8QCcc02sB8pAO8bFlJjVG64U2Wn\"<\/td>\nMarcus Geduld
    \n<\/strong>\u0110\u1ea1o di\u1ec5n, l\u1eadp tr\u00ecnh vi\u00ean, gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean, nh\u00e0 v\u0103n<\/p>\n

    Th\u00edch kh\u1ee7ng long. T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u01b0\u1ee3t xem nh\u1ea5t trong h\u01a1n 81 l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c tr\u00ean Quora, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 \u00dd ch\u00ed v\u00e0 \u0110am m\u00ea.<\/p>\n

    Profile c\u1ee7a Marcus\u00a0tr\u00ean Quora<\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    C\u00e2u n\u00e0y t\u00f4i vi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ec9? C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1eafm. 2014 v\u1edbi t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u0103m nhi\u1ec1u bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9ng. Nh\u1eefng n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng\u00a0quanh\u00a0t\u00f4i \u0111ang \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 qu\u00e1 nhanh, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u00fang l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 t\u00f4i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfm l\u1ea5y quy\u1ec1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. \u00dd t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11736,"featured_media":25865,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2279],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25864"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/11736"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25864"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25864\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":25886,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25864\/revisions\/25886"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/25865"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25864"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25864"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25864"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}