{"id":25834,"date":"2016-08-02T05:00:30","date_gmt":"2016-08-01T22:00:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/?p=25834"},"modified":"2016-08-06T19:07:23","modified_gmt":"2016-08-06T12:07:23","slug":"neu-cuoc-doi-chi-la-mot-hanh-trinh-vo-nghia-marcus-geduld","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/neu-cuoc-doi-chi-la-mot-hanh-trinh-vo-nghia-marcus-geduld\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u1ebfu cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a &#8211; Marcus Geduld"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-25835\" src=\"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/Denise-kaku-blog-living-Being-alive.jpg\" alt=\"Denise-kaku-blog-living-Being-alive\" width=\"1280\" height=\"853\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/Denise-kaku-blog-living-Being-alive.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/Denise-kaku-blog-living-Being-alive-381x254.jpg 381w, https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/Denise-kaku-blog-living-Being-alive-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/Denise-kaku-blog-living-Being-alive-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/Denise-kaku-blog-living-Being-alive-1024x682.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u1ef1 t\u1eed hay sao c\u1ea3.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng r\u1ed3i ai trong ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ch\u1ebft, nh\u01b0ng ta c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, con c\u00e1i, \u2026, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a. Ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1ec5 nghi nh\u01b0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, vui ch\u01a1i, \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, \u2026 Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu h\u00e0nh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u1ed5n khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u00ean. T\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 ra \u0111i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch thanh th\u1ea3n?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>T\u1ea1i sao l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec? N\u1ebfu c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u gi\u1ed1ng nhau, v\u1eady sao kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00dd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c th\u1ee9c d\u1eady, \u0111i l\u00e0m, v\u1ec1 ng\u1ee7, v\u00e0 l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i v\u00f2ng tu\u1ea7n ho\u00e0n \u1ea5y l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>(T\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang c\u00f2n \u0111i h\u1ecdc)<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00ed m\u1eadt: c\u00f3 4 ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngay t\u1eeb l\u00fac nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u00e0 v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 khi h\u1ecd 50 hay 60 tu\u1ed5i. B\u1ea1n t\u00f4i \u2013 Meggin l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5. \u1ede tr\u01b0\u1eddng ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u vi\u1ebft. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng trung h\u1ecdc, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y vi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch b\u00e1n ch\u1ea1y nh\u1ea5t \u201cThe Princess Diaries\u201d. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng kinh ng\u1ea1c v\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 hi\u1ebfm. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ed1ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng v\u1eady. H\u00e3y qu\u00ean n\u00f3 \u0111i.<\/li>\n<li>Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ngay t\u1eeb l\u00fac nh\u1ecf <em>ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng<\/em> h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec. H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd l\u1edbn \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i 40, nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eafn b\u00f3. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi <em>d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i<\/em> m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p th\u00ec \u1edf trong nh\u00f3m n\u00e0y. Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i. Sau n\u00e0y, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang\u00a0ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u v\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ch\u1ed3ng, v\u1ee3, con v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3n ti\u1ec1n th\u1ebf ch\u1ea5p. V\u00ec v\u1eady nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111i\u00ean r\u1ed3, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n may m\u1eafn.<\/li>\n<li>Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau l\u1edbn. H\u1ecd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch tu\u00e2n theo lu\u1eadt (v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, \u00f4n thi, l\u00e0m theo nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7).<\/li>\n<li>Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ed1ng b\u1ea1n \u2013 \u0111ang b\u1ecb l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><em>H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft<\/em> nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u n\u1eb1m trong nh\u00f3m cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng n\u00e0y. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi che gi\u1ea5u t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n gi\u1ea5u c\u1ea3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng? Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2u. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft h\u1ecd \u0111ang gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m b\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi h\u1ecd trong 20 n\u0103m n\u1eefa v\u00e0 h\u1ecd s\u1ebd n\u00f3i cho b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ho\u1ea3ng s\u1ee3 v\u00e0 b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o h\u1ed3i h\u1ecd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. V\u1eady, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ta n\u00ean\u00a0nh\u1eadn ra l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c l\u1ea1c l\u00f5ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i 20.<\/p>\n<p>Th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt m\u00e0 n\u00f3i, n\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i 40, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng tu\u1ed5i trung ni\u00ean, c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1eafm b\u1eaft n\u00f3. T\u00f4i <em>th\u00edch <\/em>b\u1ecb l\u1ea1c, v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0m t\u00f4i b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd. T\u00f4i th\u00edch cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng t\u00f4i h\u01a1n l\u00e0 t\u00f4i t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng n\u00f3. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra!<\/p>\n<p>Khi t\u00f4i l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ea1o di\u1ec5n m\u1ed9t v\u1edf k\u1ecbch, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t s\u1ee3 v\u00ec t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u00f4i \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec. M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 ngh\u0129 ra m\u1ed9t k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u00eam ch\u00fat t\u1ef1 tin. T\u00f4i m\u1ea5t 20 n\u0103m \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u ra r\u1eb1ng <em>chuy\u1ec7n th\u00fa v\u1ecb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec<\/em>. Ph\u1ea7n th\u00fa v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea1o di\u1ec5n l\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3. V\u1eady n\u00ean b\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111ang l\u1ea1c gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a th\u00f4i. Nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb l\u1ea1c, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xem m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh trong khu r\u1eebng, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 th\u00e1m hi\u1ec3m d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m, c\u1edfi m\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia nh\u1ecf nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb l\u1ea1c th\u00e0nh hai nh\u00f3m:<\/p>\n<p>1. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 b\u1ecb l\u1ea1c. H\u1ecd th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m \u0111am m\u00ea n\u00e0o. C\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd b\u1ecb chai s\u1ea1n. Nh\u00f3m n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m l\u00e2m s\u00e0ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n thu\u1ed9c nh\u00f3m n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i khuy\u00ean b\u1ea1n n\u00ean nhanh ch\u00f3ng t\u00ecm s\u1ef1 c\u1ee9u ch\u1eefa chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb cho b\u1ec7nh tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn thu\u1ed1c v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p t\u00e2m l\u00fd (v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c h\u00e0nh vi) c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m l\u00e2m s\u00e0ng, Quora c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0ng b\u00e1c s\u0129 th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n<p>C\u0169ng ch\u00fa \u00fd r\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u201cngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cchuy\u00ean ng\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i\u201d nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u1ee7y nhi\u1ec7m cho nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Khi c\u00f2n h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng b\u0103ng kho\u0103n nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb cao c\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i (\u201cT\u00f4i \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh?\u201d, \u201cL\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd ngh\u0129a?\u201d) th\u1eadt ra \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c\u00a0t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i.<\/p>\n<p>2. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u00f5a hi\u1ec7p v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c v\u0103n h\u00f3a v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c\u00a0m\u00e0 h\u1ecd <em>n\u00ean<\/em>\u00a0l\u00e0m. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, Geogre r\u1ea5t th\u00edch ch\u01a1i \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed. Ch\u00fang th\u1eadt s\u1ef1, th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t th\u00fa v\u1ecb, nh\u01b0ng anh \u1ea5y b\u1ecb n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCh\u01a1i \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p\u201d hay \u201cCh\u01a1i \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed l\u00e0 tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a con n\u00edt\u201d, n\u00ean khi anh \u1ea5y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 g\u00ec, anh \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng t\u00ednh tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed v\u00e0o v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 anh \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m \u0111am m\u00ea n\u00e0o. Nh\u01b0ng anh \u1ea5y <em>c\u00f3<\/em> m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m \u0111am m\u00ea. \u0110am m\u00ea l\u00e0 \u0111am m\u00ea, cho d\u00f9 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n<p>Hay Mary, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t chuy\u00ean ng\u00e0nh trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ec1u n\u00ean l\u00e0 \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn n\u00e0y l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p l\u00e2u d\u00e0i sau n\u00e0y. \u0110i\u1ec1u Mary th\u00edch nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ca h\u00e1t. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ea5t gi\u1ecdng hay, v\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y b\u1ecb n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ca s\u0129 chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u00ec v\u1eady, c\u00f4 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd chuy\u00ean ng\u00e0nh thanh nh\u1ea1c. \u00a0Theo c\u00f4 \u1ea5y bi\u1ebft\u00a0\u2013 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea3o c\u00f4 \u2013 l\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111am m\u00ea.<\/p>\n<p>Ho\u1eb7c Dan, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 l\u00e0m b\u1ed1. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m anh \u1ea5y h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa, nh\u01b0ng anh \u1ea5y th\u1eadt s\u1ef1, th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 con. Hay Army, ng\u01b0\u1eddi mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n trai. C\u00f4 r\u1ea5t n\u1ed3ng nhi\u1ec7t khi t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00ecnh \u0111ang h\u1eb9n h\u00f2, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i v\u00ec ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i \u201cph\u1ea3i\u201d tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp.<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n trong nh\u00f3m n\u00e0y th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 b\u1ecb l\u1ea1c. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m chung c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. \u0110\u1ea5y l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 m\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ta. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u00edch v\u1ebd ngu\u1ec7ch ngo\u1ea1c, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean ng\u1eebng th\u00edch v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n sang th\u00edch vi\u1ec7c ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n<em> c\u00f3 th\u1ec3<\/em> l\u00e0m l\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian v\u1ebd ngu\u1ec7ch ngo\u1ea1c nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1eebng b\u0103n kho\u0103n v\u1ec1 kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m\u00a0<em>vi\u1ec7c-\u0111\u1ec3-ki\u1ebfm-ti\u1ec1n<\/em> v\u00e0<em> vi\u1ec7c-m\u00ecnh-th\u00edch<\/em> n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee7 may m\u1eafn khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n cho nh\u1eefng \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. S\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u. T\u00f4i \u0111ang b\u01b0\u1edbc qua tu\u1ed5i 30 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00edch. T\u00f4i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 n\u1eefa. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00eam v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n th\u1eadt ly k\u1ef3.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.quora.com\/profile\/Adrian-Thomas-4\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Adrian Thomas<\/a>\u00a0khuy\u00ean b\u1ea1n n\u00ean li\u1ec7t ra nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u t\u1ed1i thi\u1ec3u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n\u00a0. Anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1ea5y. H\u00e3y l\u00e0m v\u1eady. Sau \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0ng lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u201cph\u1ea3i\u201d l\u00e0m. Chuy\u00ean ng\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n? D\u00f9 c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 nh\u00e9t v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng, th\u00ec th\u1eadt ra n\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng quan tr\u1ecdng t\u00ed n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e2u. \u0110am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i n\u00e0o. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111am m\u00ea n\u00e0o nh\u01b0ng sau n\u00e0y s\u1ebd c\u00f3. \u0110\u1ea5y\u00a0kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cho m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng: B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i du l\u1ecbch nhi\u1ec1u ch\u01b0a? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao nhi\u00eau l\u1ea7n m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m v\u01b0\u1ee3t ra kh\u1ecfi <em>khu v\u1ef1c an to\u00e0n<\/em> c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh? H\u00e3y ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i m\u1ed9t n\u0103m r\u1ed3i x\u00e1ch ba l\u00f4 l\u00ean v\u00e0 \u0111i kh\u1eafp th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. \u0110i du l\u1ecbch v\u1edbi ch\u00fat \u00edt ti\u1ec1n, tr\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n c\u01a1m b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong b\u1ebfp nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng hay l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec kh\u00e1c. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 Tr\u00e1i \u0110\u1ea5t, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 c\u1ea3nh v\u1eadt bi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111am m\u00ea. Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb <em>kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3<\/em> tr\u1edf n\u00ean nhi\u1ec7t huy\u1ebft b\u1edfi v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n tr\u00ean th\u1ec3 gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.quora.com\/What-should-I-do-if-I-find-life-a-meaningless-pursuit\/answers\/2371915\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Marcus Geduld<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>\u0110\u00f4i n\u00e9t v\u1ec1 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3<\/strong><\/p>\n<table>\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td width=\"220\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-25667\" src=\"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/main-thumb-1805029-200-9JScp8QCcc02sB8pAO8bFlJjVG64U2Wn.jpeg\" alt=\"main-thumb-1805029-200-9JScp8QCcc02sB8pAO8bFlJjVG64U2Wn\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" title=\"\"><\/td>\n<td><strong>Marcus Geduld<br \/>\n<\/strong>\u0110\u1ea1o di\u1ec5n, l\u1eadp tr\u00ecnh vi\u00ean, gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean, nh\u00e0 v\u0103nTh\u00edch kh\u1ee7ng long. T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u01b0\u1ee3t xem nh\u1ea5t trong h\u01a1n 81 l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c tr\u00ean Quora, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 \u00dd ch\u00ed v\u00e0 \u0110am m\u00ea.<a href=\"https:\/\/www.quora.com\/profile\/Marcus-Geduld\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Profile c\u1ee7a Marcus\u00a0tr\u00ean Quora<\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u1ef1 t\u1eed hay sao c\u1ea3. T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng r\u1ed3i ai trong ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ch\u1ebft, nh\u01b0ng ta c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, con c\u00e1i, \u2026, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a. Ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y cu\u1ed9c [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11736,"featured_media":25841,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2279],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25834"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/11736"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25834"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25834\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":25837,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25834\/revisions\/25837"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/25841"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25834"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25834"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25834"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}