{"id":25721,"date":"2016-07-25T05:00:43","date_gmt":"2016-07-24T22:00:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/?p=25721"},"modified":"2016-07-25T21:40:36","modified_gmt":"2016-07-25T14:40:36","slug":"quan-niem-sai-lam-lon-nhat-ve-cuoc-song-ma-nguoi-ta-thuong-mac-phai-jamar-johnson","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/quan-niem-sai-lam-lon-nhat-ve-cuoc-song-ma-nguoi-ta-thuong-mac-phai-jamar-johnson\/","title":{"rendered":"Quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i – Jamar Johnson"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u00f9ng chung m\u1ed9t quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c hai nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng trong suy ngh\u0129:<\/p>\n

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1. T\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1\u00a0ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9, \u0111\u1ea5y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00fang v\u1eady, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n

HO\u1eb6C<\/p>\n

2. S\u1ef1 quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 sau 1 \u0111\u00eam (hay c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 “1 b\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00ean tr\u1eddi”)<\/strong><\/p>\n

Th\u1eadt v\u1edb v\u1ea9n khi ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed9t s\u1edbm m\u1ed9t chi\u1ec1u. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u1eadt ra l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m ph\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft th\u00f4ng tin \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n trong t\u1ea7m tay ch\u1ec9 trong v\u00e0i gi\u00e2y. Ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0103n v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee9c \u0103n ch\u1ec9 trong v\u00e0i ph\u00fat. Danh s\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng v\u00ed d\u1ee5 c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3\u00a0d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng v\u00e0 nhanh ch\u00f3ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n nh\u00ecn xung quanh th\u00f4i. Ta th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean quen v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch ngh\u0129 n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/strong><\/p>\n

H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng sau m\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng qu\u00e3ng th\u1eddi gian kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 c\u1ef1c kh\u1ed5, nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 – trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c – \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. \u0110\u00e2y th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u00edt ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. Ngh\u0129a l\u00e0, b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u1eafm ch\u00ecm v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ee9 y\u1ebfu.<\/p>\n

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C\u0169ng trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 \u0111\u1eb1ng sau m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn m\u00e0 h\u1ecd s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. V\u1ec1 cu\u1ed1i, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ta ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Sau khi \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9\u00a0v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ee7, \u0111\u1ea5y l\u00e0\u00a0l\u00fac ta b\u01b0\u1edbc ra th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0\u00a0xem xem nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang hay sai, r\u1ed3i \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh nh\u1eefng k\u0129 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean c\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ee7. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y, ta s\u1ebd th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 tin b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi th\u1eadt v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3o nghi\u1ec7m ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u hi v\u1ecdng s\u1ebd thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u1ea5y:<\/p>\n

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C\u00f2n m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi may m\u1eafn l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, nh\u01b0ng chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u00e2u. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, \u0111a s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea5u v\u1edbi \u201cnh\u1eefng \u00f4ng l\u1edbn\u201d.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu ta\u00a0tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

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Trong su\u1ed1t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y, ta\u00a0c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nghi ng\u1edd b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n t\u1eeb b\u1ecf. \u0110\u00e2y th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i ki\u1ec3m tra. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, s\u1ef1 t\u00e1o b\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a ta\u00a0c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd gi\u00fap ta\u00a0ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111ang c\u00f3 l\u00ean m\u1ed9t t\u1ea7m cao m\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

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N\u1ebfu ta\u00a0\u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd, qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o m\u1edbi l\u1ea1i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u. Ph\u00e1 r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i l\u1eadp. Ta\u00a0c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.\u00a0Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nguy trang l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

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S\u1edbm sau \u0111\u1ea5y, ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n. Nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c l\u00fac tr\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1edd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i tr\u1ebb con. S\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n gia t\u0103ng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u1eeda cho nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u0169ng v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

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Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, ta t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ee7 v\u00e0\u00a0 hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n vi\u00ean\/chuy\u00ean gia t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ea1ng l\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ee7a\u00a0ta. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd cho ta th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ch\u00e2n tr\u1eddi m\u1edbi. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 v\u00f4 gi\u00e1.<\/p>\n

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“Trui r\u00e8n” b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ebft l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c. Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd k\u1ebft th\u00fac.<\/p>\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i: Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t s\u1edbm m\u1ed9t chi\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e2u.\u00a0Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 do nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y v\u1eady m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

Jamar Johnson<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u00f9ng chung m\u1ed9t quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c hai nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng trong suy ngh\u0129: 1. T\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1\u00a0ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9, \u0111\u1ea5y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11736,"featured_media":25730,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2279],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25721"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/11736"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25721"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25721\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":25734,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25721\/revisions\/25734"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/25730"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25721"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25721"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25721"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}