{"id":12961,"date":"2014-10-24T11:55:06","date_gmt":"2014-10-24T04:55:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/?p=12961"},"modified":"2014-10-24T11:55:06","modified_gmt":"2014-10-24T04:55:06","slug":"chon-truong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/chon-truong\/","title":{"rendered":"CH\u1eccN TR\u01af\u1edcNG?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Khi con g\u00e1i \u0111ang h\u1ecdc n\u0103m cu\u1ed1i ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng, t\u00f4i v\u00e0 ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn, n\u00ean ch\u1ecdn tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, theo ti\u00eau ch\u00ed n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, hai cha con c\u00f9ng th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t, tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p l\u00e0 hai chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c nhau. Tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 theo ti\u00eau ch\u00ed chung, c\u00f2n tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p l\u00e0 theo ti\u00eau ch\u00ed c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i k\u1ec3 cho ch\u00e1u nghe c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Th\u1eddi ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng, t\u00f4i h\u1ecdc tr\u01b0\u1eddng chuy\u00ean to\u00e1n \u0110HTH H\u00e0 N\u1ed9i. Ai c\u0169ng ngh\u0129, v\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u01b0\u1eddng chuy\u00ean l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c m\u1edbi hi\u1ec3u, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

V\u1edbi c\u00e1c h\u1ecdc sinh n\u1eb1m \u1edf t\u1ed1p d\u01b0\u1edbi, th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u1ecdc sinh gi\u1ecfi \u1edf c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng chuy\u00ean, l\u00e0 n\u01a1i h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng h\u1ecdc sinh gi\u1ecfi nh\u1ea5t mi\u1ec1n B\u1eafc khi \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f3, m\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u1ea7y tr\u01b0\u1eddng chuy\u00ean lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f3 l\u00ean theo kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ti\u1ebfp thu c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c h\u1ecdc sinh t\u1ed1p \u0111\u1ea7u, n\u00ean ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng kh\u00f3 h\u01a1n. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, h\u1ecdc sinh t\u1ed1p d\u01b0\u1edbi, d\u00f9 r\u1ea5t c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, nh\u01b0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u0111u\u1ed1i s\u1ee9c: tr\u00ean l\u1edbp kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u h\u1ebft b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng, v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m h\u1ebft b\u00e0i t\u1eadp. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 tr\u1ee5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t n\u0103m, hai n\u0103m r\u1ed3i ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c.<\/p>\n

K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c h\u1ecdc sinh \u1edf t\u1ed1p d\u01b0\u1edbi l\u00e0:<\/p>\n

1. Kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfp thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u b\u00e0i.
\n2. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u0111i theo su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi,
\n3. M\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, nh\u1eefng h\u1ecdc sinh xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc, n\u1eb1m trong t\u1ed1p \u0111\u1ea7u th\u00ec c\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3:<\/p>\n

1. Ti\u1ebfp thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c.
\n2. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng.
\n3. C\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

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M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u1ecdc sinh trong s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea1t gi\u1ea3i cao trong c\u00e1c k\u1ef3 thi to\u00e1n Qu\u1ed1c gia, Qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf. Nh\u1eefng v\u00f2ng nguy\u1ec7t qu\u1ebf c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra v\u1eebng h\u00e0o quang r\u1ef1c r\u1ee1 cho c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng chuy\u00ean, khi\u1ebfn cho r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc sinh coi tr\u01b0\u1eddng chuy\u00ean l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n

Ph\u00eda sau v\u1eebng h\u00e0o quang \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng ai nh\u1edb t\u1edbi kho\u1ea3ng 30% h\u1ecdc sinh tr\u01b0\u1eddng chuy\u00ean n\u1eb1m \u1edf t\u1ed1p d\u01b0\u1edbi. M\u1ea5y n\u0103m h\u1ecdc \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea7y \u1ea3i. Ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c ch\u1eb3ng thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao nhi\u00eau, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 kh\u00f4ng ai k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u0169ng m\u1ea5t \u0111i m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 r\u1ea5t qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi c\u00f2n l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc sinh gio\u0309i trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u0169: s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin.<\/p>\n

Con g\u00e1i tin nh\u1eefng g\u00ec cha ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 hai cha con \u0111\u01b0a ra \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng ch\u1ecdn tr\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n

1. Tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 cao v\u1edbi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ebfu ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp th\u00ec s\u1ebd v\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed1p \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n

2. Tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 th\u1ea5p, \u0111\u1ec3 mu\u1ed1n l\u1ecdt v\u00e0o t\u1ed1p \u0111\u1ea7u th\u00ec c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m r\u1ea5t cao.<\/p>\n

Con g\u00e1i h\u1ecfi:<\/p>\n

– L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00fang tr\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y?<\/p>\n

– Con h\u00e3y chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb nghi\u00eam t\u00fac cho k\u1ef3 thi SAT. \u0110i\u1ec3m SAT s\u1ebd gi\u00fap con \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng. Con h\u00e3y so s\u00e1nh \u0111i\u1ec3m thi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0o c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng trong danh s\u00e1ch l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, r\u1ed3i ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n

Theo t\u00f4i, n\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec3m thi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecdc sinh ch\u1ec9 n\u1eb1m \u1edf nh\u00f3m 30% th\u1ea5p nh\u1ea5t, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng cao h\u01a1n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, d\u00f9 c\u00f3 v\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c; n\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec3m thi n\u1eb1m trong nh\u00f3m 10% cao nh\u1ea5t th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng, \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng, tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p l\u00e0 n\u01a1i, m\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m thi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecdc sinh n\u1eb1m trong nh\u00f3m 20% cao nh\u1ea5t. Sau n\u00e0y, n\u1ebfu c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u1ecdc ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m cao, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd duy tr\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ecb tr\u00ed trong Top 20%.<\/p>\n

M\u1ea5t hai ng\u00e0y th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn, hai cha con m\u1edbi th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t xong ti\u00eau ch\u00ed ch\u1ecdn tr\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n

Sau \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00e1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do ch\u1ecdn tr\u01b0\u1eddng theo s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 ti\u00eau ch\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ecfa thu\u1eadn.<\/p>\n

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\nN\u0103m 2012, ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p khoa qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb kinh doanh, Boston University. Hi\u1ec7n ch\u00e1u \u0111ang h\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfp n\u0103m th\u1ee9 hai Khoa Lu\u1eadt, c\u0169ng trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp th\u00ec g\u1ea7n gi\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i.<\/p>\n

Boston University kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng nh\u01b0 Harvard \u0111\u1ec3 khoe khoang. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u.<\/p>\n

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Khi con g\u00e1i \u0111ang h\u1ecdc n\u0103m cu\u1ed1i ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng, t\u00f4i v\u00e0 ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn, n\u00ean ch\u1ecdn tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, theo ti\u00eau ch\u00ed n\u00e0o? \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, hai cha con c\u00f9ng th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t, tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p l\u00e0 hai chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c nhau. Tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 theo ti\u00eau ch\u00ed chung, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11497,"featured_media":12968,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1749],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12961"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/11497"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12961"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12961\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12969,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12961\/revisions\/12969"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12968"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12961"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12961"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12961"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}