{"id":12807,"date":"2014-08-24T15:57:54","date_gmt":"2014-08-24T08:57:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/?p=12807"},"modified":"2014-08-24T15:57:54","modified_gmt":"2014-08-24T08:57:54","slug":"nhung-hiem-hoa-bat-ngo-khi-gui-con-du-hoc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/scholarshipplanet.info\/vi\/nhung-hiem-hoa-bat-ngo-khi-gui-con-du-hoc\/","title":{"rendered":"Nh\u1eefng \u2018hi\u1ec3m ho\u1ea1\u2019 b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd khi g\u1eedi con du h\u1ecdc"},"content":{"rendered":"

C\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n n\u1eafm r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3m ho\u1ea1 \u0111\u1ec3 s\u00e1t sao khi con c\u00e1i \u0111i du h\u1ecdc. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec ch\u00fang \u0111i T\u00e2y v\u1ec1 m\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/strong><\/p>\n

V\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ph\u1ee5 huynh, kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc l\u00ean \u00f4 t\u00f4 ra s\u00e2n bay ti\u1ec5n con \u0111i du h\u1ecdc n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng. M\u1eebng vui l\u1eabn v\u1edbi lo \u00e2u. V\u1eeba sung s\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh sau 12 n\u0103m ch\u1ea1y \u0111ua tr\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ecdn l\u1edbp chuy\u00ean, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng v\u1eeba lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 ch\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1eafp t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u, tuy nhi\u00ean c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n lo c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e1ng lo, b\u1edfi \u0111i T\u00e2y du h\u1ecdc ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n nhi\u1ec1u hi\u1ec3m h\u1ecda l\u1edbn, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5y chuy\u1ec7n l\u1ebb t\u1ebb \u0103n u\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, m\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o \u1ea5m. Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 5 r\u1ee7i ro c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qua c\u00e1c kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng, \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

1. Sao nh\u00e3ng h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nguy c\u01a1 n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng hay ph\u00e1t sinh v\u00e0o n\u0103m th\u1ee9 2 hay th\u1ee9 3, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u00ec c\u00e1c c\u00f4 c\u00e1c c\u1eadu sau m\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea5y n\u0103m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao b\u1ecdc, nay \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1ed5 l\u1ed3ng th\u00ec b\u1ed7ng nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ed1n ra r\u01b0\u1ee3u ch\u00e8 hay c\u1edd b\u1ea1c. M\u00e0 l\u00e0 v\u00ec kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam, trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110H T\u00e2y, con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng quan t\u00e2m ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i cho s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p sau n\u00e0y. Con c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, l\u00fac \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft to\u00e1n v\u1edbi l\u00fd, sau hai n\u0103m \u1edf ch\u00e2u \u00c2u b\u1ed7ng quay ra t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 n\u1ea1n ph\u00e1 r\u1eebng \u1edf Amazon, r\u1ed3i tr\u0103n tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng nh\u00e2n d\u1ec7t may \u1edf Bangladesh, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 m\u1ea5y th\u1ee9 v\u00f4 b\u1ed5 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n theo sinh vi\u00ean b\u1ea3n x\u1ee9 xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 cho quy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt. S\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i k\u1ec3 l\u00e0 khi con v\u1ec1 ph\u00e9p th\u00ec ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra l\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 hai t\u1eadp th\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 v\u0103n da \u0111en n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf trong c\u1eb7p, lo qu\u00e1 l\u00e0 n\u00f3 sa v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ecdc th\u01a1 v\u1edbi ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft th\u00ec l\u1ea5y \u0111\u00e2u ra th\u1eddi gian m\u00e0 h\u1ecdc, t\u1edbi l\u00fac n\u00f3 b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea5y l\u00e0 s\u00e1ch nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ecdc th\u00ec m\u1edbi h\u01a1i y\u00ean t\u00e2m, tuy v\u1eabn b\u00e1n tin b\u00e1n nghi. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u00f4i th\u00ec h\u00e8 v\u1eeba r\u1ed3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i b\u00e1o tin \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t khu \u1ed5 chu\u1ed9t \u1edf ch\u00e2u Phi l\u00e0m t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n, th\u1ebf l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i t\u1ee9c t\u1ed1c g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n b\u1eaft n\u00f3 v\u1ec1 ngay, “n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nhi\u1ec5m HIV”.<\/p>\n

\"H\u1ecdc<\/a>
H\u1ecdc t\u1eadp \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u01b0 ph\u1ea1m v\u00e0 v\u0103n h\u00f3a kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1 s\u1ebd mang l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc sinh ph\u1ea3i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u00e2m l\u00fd.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

2. L\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c trong suy ngh\u0129?<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m \u0111\u00fang m\u1ee9c l\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y hay l\u00e0m t\u1ee5i tr\u1ebb tr\u1eb1n tr\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t anh b\u1ea1n t\u00f4i t\u00ecnh c\u1edd \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eb1ng con trai vi\u1ebft trong nh\u1eadt k\u00fd “T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ai? M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 g\u00ec?” H\u00f4m sau, anh \u0111\u1ed5i cho n\u00f3 c\u00e1i iPhone \u0111\u1eddi m\u1edbi r\u1ed3i r\u1ee7 r\u1ec9 “Con l\u00e0 con c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1. Con \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ed1 ph\u1ea3i x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5.” R\u1ed3i anh n\u00f3i th\u00eam, “M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a con l\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3 v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t, c\u00f3 th\u1ebf m\u1edbi m\u1edf m\u00e0y m\u1edf m\u1eb7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con \u1ea1.”<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t lo v\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9a con g\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eafp t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p r\u1ed3i m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n “\u0111\u1ea5u tranh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i”. Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 ch\u1ecb ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch ngay cho n\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u, \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 d\u1ea1i, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ecfi b\u1eb1ng ch\u00e1n v\u1ea1n n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eed r\u1ed3i, “cho n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 c\u1ed1 vun v\u00e9n cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh th\u00f4i, \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 va ch\u1ea1m g\u00ec m\u00e0 chu\u1ed1c thi\u1ec7t v\u00e0o th\u00e2n.”<\/p>\n

N\u00f3i chung, kh\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh lo l\u1eafng l\u00e0 t\u1ee5i tr\u1ebb \u0111i T\u00e2y v\u1ec1 g\u00e0 t\u1ed3 qu\u00e1, g\u1eb7p g\u00ec ch\u01b0\u1edbng tai gai m\u1eaft l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng li\u1ec1n, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch n\u1ecbnh tr\u00ean, n\u1ea1t d\u01b0\u1edbi, l\u1ea5y l\u00f2ng k\u1ebb m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 tr\u1ea5n \u00e1p k\u1ebb y\u1ebfu.<\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9a m\u00e3i v\u1eabn c\u1ee9 ng\u1ed1 m\u00e0 t\u00e2m ni\u1ec7m v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 “Ph\u1ea3i \u0111i b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh”, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 c\u00f3 khi \u0111i b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ea7u g\u1ed1i m\u1edbi \u0111i xa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. C\u1ee9 m\u00e1y m\u00f3c nh\u01b0 b\u00ean T\u00e2y th\u00ec nguy to.<\/p>\n

3. H\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0nh v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng<\/strong><\/p>\n

Theo quan s\u00e1t c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, nguy c\u01a1 n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 t\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9t bi\u1ebfn trong d\u0103m b\u1ea3y n\u0103m tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc kia ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn du h\u1ecdc sinh \u0111\u1ec1u h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0nh danh gi\u00e1 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai nh\u01b0 kinh t\u1ebf, y, tin h\u1ecdc, marketing hay ngo\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u00ec g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, do nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 nhi\u1ec5u m\u00e0 t\u00f4i v\u1eeba n\u00eau b\u00ean tr\u00ean, c\u1ed9ng v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee5 huynh thi\u1ebfu th\u00f4ng tin \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t, nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f4 c\u1eadu xoay ra h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0nh r\u1ea5t o\u00e1i \u0103m nh\u01b0 tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc, l\u1ecbch s\u1eed v\u0103n h\u1ecdc, hay ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 ng\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 t\u00ean ti\u1ebfng Vi\u1ec7t, con c\u00e1i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch m\u00e3i b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao m\u00e0 khoe v\u1edbi h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c?<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t ch\u1ecb b\u1ea1n t\u00f4i ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a con g\u00e1i \u1edf M\u1ef9 v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m lu\u1eadn \u00e1n th\u1ea1c s\u0129 v\u1ec1 “Nh\u1eefng d\u1ecbch chuy\u1ec3n t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd c\u1ee7a t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c” v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng v\u00ec b\u1ecb h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m m\u00e1ch l\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n m\u1ea5y \u00f4-sin c\u00f9ng ph\u1ed1 v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n ri\u00eang t\u01b0.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u01b0\u01a1ng quy\u1ebft b\u1eaft con ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed5i ng\u00e0nh h\u1ecdc, t\u00ean c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ea5y lo\u00e1ng tho\u00e1ng c\u00f3 ch\u1eef “h\u1eadu hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i”, v\u00ec theo anh \u1ea5y th\u00ec “‘hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i’ c\u00f2n ch\u1ea3 \u0103n ai hu\u1ed1ng h\u1ed3 l\u00e0 ‘h\u1eadu hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i'”.<\/p>\n

Theo t\u00f4i, khi con c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eb1ng n\u1eb7c \u0111\u00f2i \u0111i h\u1ecdc m\u1ea5y th\u1ee9 vi\u1ec3n v\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef h\u1ecdc hay nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee7ng h\u1ecdc th\u00ec ho\u1ea1 \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ed3i – n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng th\u1eadt s\u1edbm \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng gi\u00e1 cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n

4. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/strong><\/p>\n

Th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1ng lo ng\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1c c\u00f4 c\u00e1c c\u1eadu kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh \u0111\u00e3 xong v\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 24, 25, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb trung g\u00ec n\u1eefa. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i kinh ho\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Con nh\u00e0 t\u1eed t\u1ebf b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p \u0111\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u00f2 v\u00f5 th\u00ec th\u1eadt l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng, ch\u1ec9 t\u1ed5 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta d\u1ecb ngh\u1ecb l\u00e0 c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec. M\u00e0 k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 c\u00f3 ch\u1ed3ng r\u1ed3i nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 con th\u00ec th\u1eadt l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ph\u00fac, l\u00e0m cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh T\u1ebft nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m g\u1eb7p h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng n\u1eefa, l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec Har-v\u1edbt, Har-vi\u1ebfc g\u00ec th\u00ec c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 tai h\u1ea1i m\u00e0 c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n b\u1eaft con em m\u00ecnh tr\u00e1nh xa, b\u1edfi theo t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec b\u00ean T\u00e2y m\u1ed9t n\u1eeba l\u00e0 s\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n, v\u00e0 n\u1eeda c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i th\u00ec m\u00e3i t\u1eadn ngo\u00e0i 30 m\u1edbi l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Nh\u00e0 ch\u1ecb b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 \u00f4-sin m\u00e0 t\u00f4i k\u1ec3 l\u00fac tr\u01b0\u1edbc, t\u1eeb m\u1ea5y n\u0103m nay nh\u01b0 ng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean than h\u1ed3ng, v\u00ec c\u00f4 n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 26 m\u00e0 ch\u01b0a d\u1eabn ai v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng th\u1ebf l\u1ea1i c\u00f2n c\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfp l\u00ean. Nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh nhi\u1ec1u khi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd t\u1edbi: con g\u00e1i th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean h\u1ecdc cao qu\u00e1 – c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 th\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9a n\u00e0o n\u00f3 r\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i cho? \u0110\u1ea5y l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a k\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00f4 c\u00f2n d\u1eedng m\u1ee1 l\u00ean x\u0103m th\u00eam c\u00e1i h\u00ecnh v\u00e0o g\u00e1y hay v\u00e0o vai, th\u00ec c\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng b\u00eau ri\u1ebfu b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e0n d\u00e2n thi\u00ean h\u1ea1.<\/p>\n

5. Kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3m ho\u1ea1 n\u00f3i tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c ra ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ec7nh l\u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1ea5y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u01b0\u01a1ng b\u01b0\u1edbng. Sau khi con em h\u1ecdc xong x\u00e1ch va li v\u1ec1 n\u01b0\u1edbc, nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh m\u1edbi ng\u00e3 ng\u1eeda ra l\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u00f4 c\u1eadu tr\u01b0\u1edbc kia v\u1ed1n ngoan ngo\u00e3n, nghe l\u1eddi, th\u00ec nay b\u1ed7ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee9ng c\u1ed5. V\u00ec sao l\u1ea1i v\u1eady?<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y l\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee9ng c\u1ed5? T\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u00e1ng m\u1eaft t\u1ec9nh ng\u1ed9 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y sau khi tham d\u1ef1 m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 trao b\u1eb1ng t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a con trai hai anh ch\u1ecb b\u1ea1n \u1edf ch\u00e2u \u00c2u v\u00e0o m\u00f9a h\u00e8 n\u0103m nay. H\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ec1 t\u1ef1u trong h\u1ed9i tr\u01b0\u1eddng 300 n\u0103m tu\u1ed5i nghi\u00eam trang v\u00e0 l\u1ed9ng l\u1eaby c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng, \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c du d\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u1ed5i l\u00ean, r\u1ed3i \u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u tr\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ecdc l\u1eddi ch\u00fac m\u1eebng. L\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd v\u00ec m\u1ea3i ch\u1ee5p \u1ea3nh, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i gi\u1ecfng tai l\u00ean khi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i “C\u00e1c em h\u00e3y h\u1ee9a l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ng\u1eebng \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi”. H\u1eebm, t\u00f4i g\u00e3i c\u1eb1m. “V\u00e0 c\u00e1c em h\u00e3y h\u1ee9a l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi ch\u00fang l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00e1c em.”<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i t\u00e1 ho\u1ea3, d\u1ecbch v\u1ed9i sang ti\u1ebfng Vi\u1ec7t cho hai anh ch\u1ecb b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn \u0111ang m\u01a1 m\u00e0ng v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u ti\u1ebfng. Ngay sau bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5, anh b\u1ea1n t\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con “Tr\u1ee9ng th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4n h\u01a1n v\u1ecbt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.” “C\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 v\u00ec con,” ch\u1ecb b\u1ea1n t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ebf th\u00eam, “b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec t\u1ed1t cho con.”<\/p>\n

T\u1ed5ng k\u1ebft l\u1ea1i, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y v\u1eabn l\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u01b0u ti\u00ean cho \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con em ch\u00fang ta, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m b\u1eb1ng danh gi\u00e1, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u0103n minh, \u0103n n\u00f3i l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1, x\u1ea3 r\u00e1c \u0111\u00fang ch\u1ed7, kh\u00f4ng chen l\u1ea5n khi x\u1ebfp h\u00e0ng, d\u1eebng xe tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e8n \u0111\u1ecf k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 ban \u0111\u00eam v\u00e2n v\u00e2n. Nh\u01b0ng v\u0103n minh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 qu\u00e1 tr\u1edbn.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n n\u1eafm r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3m ho\u1ea1 \u0111\u1ec3 s\u00e1t sao khi con c\u00e1i \u0111i du h\u1ecdc; kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec ch\u00fang \u0111i T\u00e2y v\u1ec1 m\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 sau n\u00e0y ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1i \u00fd b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i theo \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eb7ng Ho\u00e0ng Giang<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

* TS \u0110\u1eb7ng Ho\u00e0ng Giang t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p k\u1ef9 s\u01b0 c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 th\u00f4ng tin, \u0110H K\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt llmenau (\u0110\u1ee9c), v\u00e0 c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c kinh t\u1ebf ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a \u0110H C\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 Vienna, \u00c1o. T\u1eebng \u1edf ch\u00e2u \u00c2u g\u1ea7n 20 n\u0103m, qu\u1ed1c t\u1ecbch \u00c1o, \u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kinh nghi\u1ec7m nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u trong c\u00e1c l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 kinh t\u1ebf Vi\u1ec7t Nam. C\u00e1c l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng g\u1ed3m kinh t\u1ebf trong th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed5i, qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb nh\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 minh b\u1ea1ch, c\u00f9ng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh v\u0103n h\u00f3a c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7.<\/em><\/p>\n

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